“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.” John 13:34 – 35.
Consider the
context of what Jesus says, how do verses 34 and 35 work in the passage?
In verse 33
Jesus says, “Little children, I am with you a little while longer. You will
seek Me; and as I said to the Jews, now I also say to you, ‘Where I am going,
you cannot come.’”
Then in verse 36
we read, “Simon Peter said to Him, ‘Lord, where are You going?’ Jesus answered,
‘Where I go, you cannot follow Me now; but you will follow later.’”
It is as if
Simon Peter ignores the New Commandment and wants to get on with what Jesus is
saying about going away and coming again, about being seen and then not being
seen, about the disciples not being able to follow and then being able to
follow. (Recall the passages on this theme listed in the previous reflection
that we find throughout the Upper Room).
We tend, I
think, to view verses 34 and 35 in isolation from its context, an enigmatic
context if we will follow the theme of Jesus appearing and leaving and
appearing, of Jesus being seen and then not seen and then seen, of us not being
able to follow and then following. (Do we not see this motif in the Song of
Solomon, with the Bridegroom appearing and then withdrawing, and then appearing
again? Do we not see the Bride searching for her Beloved?)
Is this not a
dance of the Bridegroom and the Bride? Can we not “see” that when our Beloved
withdraws Himself it is an invitation to follow Him into deeper intimacy?
The depths of
this invitation to intimacy are seen yet again in John 15:12 – 13 where the New
Commandment contains the “greater love” of laying down one’s life for our
friends. For us to love as Jesus loves means that we lay down our lives for the
brethren, it means that we know Him in the koinonia of His sufferings (Phil. 3:10).
“We know love by
this, that He laid down His life for us; and we ought to lay down our lives for
the brethren.” (1 John 3:16).
The way to
follow Jesus, the way to go where He is going, is to love one another as He
loves us, and this is to be how all men are to know that we are His
disciples. (Note also John 17:23. Our
love for one another and our unity in the Trinity are the marks by which we and
the Gospel are to be known – they are our testimony!).
Living in the
Holy of Holies of John 17 entails the ever-present and unfolding Way of Life of
John 13:34 – 35 and John 15:12 – 13.
There are at
least two great dangers in pondering the New Commandment, the first is to gloss
over “even as I have loved you” and say, “That is impossible. We’ll just do the
best we can.” The second great danger is to think that we can obey this command
in and of ourselves.
We have no
warrant to edit the Word of Jesus Christ, to dumb it down, to lower the standard,
to make excuses – including the excuse, “Well, I’m just a sinner saved by
the grace of God.” God forbid that
we should think that, in Christ, we are anything but saints – the sons and
daughters of the Living God, born of the Holy Spirit and made new creations in
Jesus Christ! (2 Cor. 5:11 – 21; Rom. Cp. 8; Jn. Cp. 17).
To love as Jesus
loves means that the Cross, the laying down of our lives, is ever working
within us and through us. It also means that we know the reality of abiding in
the Vine and that “apart from Me you can do nothing” (Jn. 15:1 – 5). Jesus
Christ is our organic source of life – not a religious or moral or ethical
system, no matter its Christian trappings, and certainly not a political or
economic or nationalistic system – no matter the pressure exerted upon us.
The New
Commandment brings us to the end of ourselves and to our new life in Jesus
Christ. It brings us to the end of ourselves because we cannot obey it – we have
not the life to do so. It brings us to our new life in Jesus Christ because in
Him, in the Vine, we have resurrection life – the working out of the Cross and
the Resurrection in the ebb and flow of life throughout our entire being and in
koinonia with the Trinity and with one another.
The life of the
Trinity lives in us, through our redemption in Christ, and this life finds
expression in community, in koinonia – leading us together in Life in which God
is all in all.
And yet we gloss
over the New Commandment as if it were some sort of high and lofty unattainable
ideal – when it is to be the bedrock of our life and witness in Jesus Christ. We
make excuses when our Father will have no excuses.
Let us make no
mistake, living in the New Commandment will cost us our lives – for it leads to
the Cross and it is empowered by the Cross – the Cross working in us as individuals,
in marriages, in families, in congregations, and (if we must have them) in our
traditions and denominations.
Jesus is saying,
“I’m going away, but here is how you can follow Me. Here is how I will reveal
Myself again and again and again. I will go away and come again, then I will go
away again and come again. You will see Me as you follow Me in my love, as you love
as I love, as you die as I die, as you rise as I rise, as you give as I give,
as you forgive as I forgive…as you live in Me and as I live in you.”
O the glory our
Father has given to us in Jesus Christ! The joy of being His daughters and
sons!
Galatians 2:20.