“Pray without ceasing” (1 Thess. 5:17).
Recalling that
rejoicing always, praying without ceasing, and giving thanks in all things are
woven into the essence of our koinonia with (and in) the Trinity, that they are
expressions of our life in the Vine – how might we think about this admonition
to always be praying?
(Can we see the
continuous element in verses 16 – 18? Always rejoicing, always praying, and
always giving thanks; if we give thanks for everything then we are always
giving thanks.)
For sure prayer
takes many forms. Paul urges that “entreaties [intercessions] and prayers,
petitions and thanksgivings, be made on behalf of all men…” (1 Tim. 2:1). We
pray for others; we also pray for ourselves, we give thanks on our own behalf,
we make petitions. The one prayer we cannot pray on our own behalf is the
prayer of intercession, that requires another to stand in our place before God;
Jesus always does this (Heb. 7:25), but hopefully there are others who also
intercede for us…well…let us hope there is a least someone who does.
Praying for
someone is not the same as interceding for someone. To intercede for someone
(or a people) means that we stand in that person’s place before our Father, it
means that we identify ourselves with that person, it means that we bind
ourselves to our prayers of intercession until an answer comes and our souls
are released from the burden of intercession. Intercession may be for a short
season, but it may also be for many months or years; indeed, it may be for a
lifetime. Intercession is intensely sacrificial.
Praying for
someone may morph into intercession…or it may not. When we pray for someone on
a regular basis we may find times a sense of special prayer for the other
person is placed on our hearts by the Holy Spirit – responding to the Holy
Spirit in such times often leads us into a season of intercession.
I tell many
people that I will pray for them, but seldom do I tell others that I will
intercede for them. While all prayer is holy ground, intercession is a
particular holy ground with a commitment and a cost – it is usually long term.
The Lord hears our words, He knows whether we have made a commitment to
intercede…and I do not think He takes these things lightly. After all, His
intercession for us cost Him His life…and to one degree or another our
intercession will cost us our own lives. “Death works in us, but life in you”
(2 Cor. 4:12).
It has been said
that prayer is conversation with God – this means both speaking and listening. I
believe this, I strongly and deeply believe this; I believe conversational
communion is at the core of our life in the Trinity. If we spend our days and
nights in Jesus the Vine, it is natural that we’ll be enjoying listening to Him
and speaking to Him – mutually sharing thoughts with each other.
It we spend our
days with a spouse or a friend; there will be times we engage in conversation
and there will be times we are both silent; every day will probably not be the
same. The absence of verbal conversation does not mean that we are not
together, it does not mean that we are not thinking about each other, it does
not mean that our presence has been withdrawn from one another. There may be
days when one spouse talks more than another. Ought we not learn to be natural
with our Father, with our Lord Jesus, and with the Holy Spirit?
Yet, while
prayer is conversation with God, we know from Scripture that prayer takes many
forms and some of those forms have a special “voice” to them – such as
intercession. Other forms can include petitions for oneself or others,
thanksgivings, confession of sin, a plea for wisdom, prayers for healing,
prayer when making a decision (Jesus spent the night in prayer before choosing
the Twelve).
I am making this
point because as much as I cherish the image of prayer being conversation with
God, and as much as I have endeavored to practice this as the fabric of my life,
prayer can also require much work and sacrifice, it can require wisdom as it is
based on the Word of God and the Promises of God as contained in His Word. Prayer
often requires discipline, in fact, we may fail to engage in forms of Biblical
prayer because we are not living lives of discipleship – therefore we do not
have a foundation upon which to build and practice a life of prayer.
Many years ago,
when I was pondering my prayer life, I sensed the Father speaking to me, “Bob,
why are you pondering your prayer life, when you should be thinking about
living a life of prayer?”
We are called not
so much to have “prayer lives,” but rather to live in intimate relationship
with God, an intimacy in which we live lives of prayer.
I suppose I need
to address the question, “Is this possible? Is it possible to pray without ceasing?"
O dear friends,
to live in deep relationship with Jesus and with one another is our calling,
and when we focus on Jesus we will (I think) stop asking such questions for we
will realize that we are abiding in the Vine – in good days and bad, in sorrow
and in joy – and we will be going deeper and higher in our dear Lord Jesus. Why,
even should we sin we will still be praying…prayers of confession, of repentance,
of consecration – there is always something to talk about with Jesus, our
Father, and the blessed Holy Spirit – always!
Jesus calls us
and He keeps us…and O my…how patient He is with us.
I suppose I
should also mention that praying without ceasing is something we all need to learn
from our Father and Lord Jesus. We can see it modeled in others, we can learn
some things from others about prayer in its many forms, but there are places
where only you can go in our Father – I cannot go there for you and you cannot
go there for me. The Scriptures give us many expressions of prayer, many forms,
many images, and the Holy Spirit can draw us into them and can plant them
within us – and so we ought to know His Word – I think this is critical.
On the other
hand, I do not think teaching others “techniques” and methods is generally
helpful. Yes, perhaps for a time they can be as training wheels on a child’s bicycle
– and if they are treated that way it is one thing, but to think that certain
forms and techniques are for adult bicyclists is…I think…not wise. Our relationship
with the Trinity is organic, therefore our lives of prayer are organic. Let us
remember that the Word of God, the Scriptures, are organic – they are living in
Christ, displaying Christ, and drawing us into the Trinity.
Praying without
ceasing is a charge to us as individuals, as husbands and wives, as families,
and as congregations.
How are we
responding to this holy charge?
Postscript: The
longest book of the Bible, Psalms, is a book of prayers; so let us not be so
foolish as to discount the value of written prayers, including those embedded
in liturgies. Written prayers can be a framework in which we commune with God
and can give us freedom to go ever deeper and higher in Him – as individuals
and as His People. Those who are accustomed to written prayers often forget
what they have in Christ because the prayers are familiar, and those who discount
the holiness of written prayers miss riches that they could have in Christ. Psalm
23 is more real to me today than yesterday and I have known it since I was a
young child. If you are a pastor, elder, or teacher – have you written a prayer
for your people to pray together? If not, why not? Some of us can bake cakes
and cookies, you can bake a prayer for others.