“Truly,
truly, I say to you, that one of you will betray Me…Now is the Son of Man
glorified, and God is glorified in Him.” (John 13:21 and 31).
If
the slave is not greater than his master, (Jn. 13:16, 15:20), then since Jesus
was betrayed we ought not to think it strange when we are betrayed, nor should
we hesitate to embrace the Cross of Christ when we are betrayed, for are we not
called to know the koinonia of His sufferings?
However,
let me hasten to add, that betrayal carries a particular pain and sorrow in its
cup that touches the depths of our souls – and I suppose we carry its scars
just as Jesus carries the print of the nails. To be admitted to the “fellowship
of the betrayed” is not something anyone ought to aspire to, nor is it
something that we should glory in – for betrayal is beyond words and is costly
– both to the one who is betrayed and to the one who is the betrayer.
“For
it is not an enemy who reproaches me, then I could bear it; nor is it one who
hates me who has exalted himself against me, then I could hide myself from him.
But it is you, a man my equal, my companion and my familiar friend; we who had
sweet fellowship together walked in the house of God in the throng.” (Psalm
55:12 – 14).
In
his Inferno, Dante reserves the depths of Hell for traitors. Barbara
Reynolds describes Dante’s depiction of the city of treachery thusly:
“It
is a freezing of all human bonds, of kinship, loyalty to country or party,
hospitality, and gratitude for benefaction.”
We
may contrast betrayal with the love of God, “This is My commandment, that you
love one another, just as I have loved you. Great love has no one than this,
that one lay down his life for his friends.” (John 15:12 – 13).
Betrayal
sacrifices others, God’s love sacrifices itself.
Consider
that not only does Jesus wash the feet of Judas, His betrayer, but that in the
midst of this betrayal Jesus continues to love and serve His disciples. That
is, Jesus continues to focus on loving His friends, and in loving His friends
who were in His immediate presence, He is loving us who will come to know Him
(John 17:20; Heb. 12:1 – 2).
When
we are betrayed, the pain and uncertainty and surprise is so great, the threat
is so unexpected, that the betrayal can absorb our attention and energy to the
exclusion of all else, to the exclusion of loving others. The betrayer can loom
larger than anyone else in our lives. Yet should anyone be larger than God in
our hearts and minds and souls? Is not Jesus Christ our Lord, does He not
remain Lord of all?
Judas’s
betrayal did not alter Jesus’ commitment and obedience to the Father, in fact,
if anything it confirmed and highlighted it.
“Now
My soul has become troubled; and what shall I say, ‘Father, save Me from this
hour’? But for this purpose I came to this hour.” (John 12:27). The “hour” that
Jesus speaks of includes the great betrayal.
When
Judas leaves the Upper Room to consummate his betrayal of Jesus, Jesus says, “Now
is the Son of Man glorified, and God is glorified in Him; if God is glorified
in Him, God will also glorify Him in Himself, and will glorify Him immediately.”
(John 13:31 – 32).
The
Betrayal plays a role in the glorification of the Father and the Son – then and
now.
Peter
writes, “If you are reviled for the name of Christ, you are blessed, because the
Spirit of glory and of God rests on you…Therefore, those also who suffer
according to the will of God shall entrust their souls to a faithful Creator in
doing what is right.” (1 Peter 4:14 & 19).
In
the midst of being betrayed, Jesus continues to commit Himself to the Father,
trusting that the betrayal is in the Father’s plan for glorification and for
the salvation of others. Likewise we also, when we are betrayed, are called to continue
our commitment to our Father and Lord Jesus, trusting in the Holy Spirit to
fill us and rest upon us as we walk through the betrayal; trusting God to use
the betrayal for His glory, for our glorification in Him, and for the blessing
of others.
We
must not allow betrayal to distract us from loving and serving others, we must
not allow betrayal to make us bitter and vindictive. In the midst of betrayal,
we ought to embrace our call to follow Jesus Christ and to take up our cross
and follow Him (Mark 8:34 – 38) and to view betrayal as an opportunity to allow
the Cross to work within us for the glory of God. Is the slave above his or her
Master?
This,
my friends, is one of the differences between a spiritual child and an adult –
a child sees betrayal as all about himself, while an adult offers betrayal to
the Father for His glory. A child tells everyone about the betrayal, an adult
only speaks what is necessary, when it is necessary. Indeed, to the adult
betrayal is an element in the pilgrimage of the Cross. Indeed, the adult
realizes that at one time he (or she) played the role of Judas himself – for we
were all enemies of God at one time.
None
of this lessens the pain and anguish of betrayal, and the more we have trusted
the betrayer the deeper the pain. I recall a time when an employee who I had
poured myself into and opened many doors for betrayed me. I could not believe
what she had done. Even though my eyes told me the truth of the betrayal, my
heart could not accept it – until I had another trusted employee review and confirm
the theft – only with this additional confirmation could I accept what my mind
told me was true.
I
have also experienced betrayal within the professing church, and I will frankly
say that this scar tissue remains with me – I am writing about something I have
experienced. There is perhaps no pain like the pain of betrayal by professing
Christians, by brothers and sisters (other than betrayal within marriage and
family).
But
here is the thing, no matter the degree of betrayal, no matter its results, we
are still called to serve Christ and others, we are to embrace the Cross, we
are to love – and we are to wash the feet of Judas well as the feet of Peter. We
are not better or greater than our Master, and we ought to be thankful
that Jesus trusts us enough to call us into the fellowship of those who have
been betrayed…for we know that the Father will be glorified, that Jesus Christ will
be glorified, and that we…individually and as Christ’s Body, will be glorified
in the Trinity.
If
you are bitter about a betrayal in your own life, please meditate on our Lord
Jesus Christ and what we see in Him in the midst of the great Betrayal by Judas.
Are you greater than your Master?
How
might you allow Jesus to walk with you and speak to you?
Please
ask your Father for grace to forgive the betrayer(s) – let us not forget that
we are to forgive others as we desire God to forgive us (Mt. 6:12; Eph. 4:32).
Let
us guard against the trap of closing ourselves off from others because we have
been betrayed – let us rather embrace the Cross and the comfort of our Father
and love and serve others out of our broken vessels (2 Cor. 4:7 – 12).
After
all, life is about Jesus Christ…and if we are to find ourselves, our destiny, we
must lose ourselves in Him.